When you're sitting in bed and you're cleaning your glasses and you think "maybe my husband would like his glasses cleaned too?" if you were to lean over and say "honey, would you like to clean your glasses?" and he then said "my glasses are in my office" would that mean:
a. Sure, I'll go get them and be right back.
b. I'm comfortable and don't want to get up, so no thanks.
c. Maybe they'll float in here on their own and then I'll clean them. OR
d. I don't know how to communicate so why bother asking me?